brought you to this decision … to find a Ukrainian wife; it is very
important to learn what waters you are going to enter. You better build up
your own plan and strategy in advance. It goes without saying that, in
order to find the ideal future wife. You yourself should also be an ideal
match for her. We are going to try and give you some good advice
concerning how it is the best to proceed when looking for a Ukrainian
woman. It is based on real and practical experiences of some of our
members, but never jump into derivations and conclusions first see whether
she fits your requirements.
First of all, forget
what some dating sites propagation about a marriage with Ukrainian women.
Keep in mind you will not find a future wife who is 30 years younger than
you in Ukraine and will never be able to establish a long-lasting
relationship that will leads to marriage. Such marriages end up in
shambles usually within the first three or four years, which is enough
time to obtain the citizenship or the Green Card. Nevertheless, most
Ukrainian women are not so desperate to find a husband overseas, they are
looking mainly for a flame of love, affection and serious relationship.
Generally, women from
Ukraine are in search of nice, healthy and financially secured men. Not a
single Ukrainian girl is dreaming about marrying a jobless ugly man who
just happens to possess the Canadian, German or American passport.
The capitalism settled
in Ukraine many years ago. 25 years ago it was possible for a 65 years old
European or American man to find a very young and beautiful Ukrainian lady
for marriage, but at present it will not work. So, if your are a very
tempered man who is 60-65 years old, we will advice you to look for a
future Ukrainian wife who is in her fifties or even forties no less. We
suggest you find a legitimate and decent marriage agency or a dating site
that will offer you such possibility. You may not agree with this reality
but we assure you that your German or Australian passport will no longer
be enough to win or conquer the heart of an Ukrainian beautiful woman.
Ukrainian wives: The
two most important factors
Security and love are
the two points that zoom in when it comes to meeting Ukrainian women for a
long-term relationship and possible marriage. With love, of course, comes
understanding and support. Financial stability and security is also one of
the factors that should be available.
Certainly, it does not
mean that you should necessarily drive an expensive car and live in a
castle. If you have a stable and good paying job, you are definitely ready
to start searching for a Ukrainian wife. When corresponding with a
Ukrainian woman try to be respectful and never push things ahead with
urgency, remember it is not a business transaction you are after. Having a
stable job and income will also be of a big advantage to you when it comes
to the paper works needed to bringing your fiancée to your country.
If you are considering
finding a Ukrainian wife, you should also remember that you will need to
be devoted to her. Ukrainian girls were brought up following specific
principles, and they will want their future husband fit these principles
that were indoctrinated into them since they were young girls.
So how to attract a
Ukrainian woman who will be your future wife?
marriage/dating agency is simple, but getting women to answer your mails
can be a little challenging. Remember that your main goal is to come
across as confident without seeming desperate or aggressive. Try to show
yourself as an calm, friendly and nice man who is looking for a serious
relationship and marriage.
When contacting a woman
avoid inflating your good qualities or you will seem cocky and arrogant.
Bragging about your wealth, money or cars might attract some women, but it
will definitely set off alarm bells for most of them. Keep it as simple as
possible and talk about the good qualities of your character and
personality rather than your possessions and properties. Do this by saying
what you are looking for in a wife. Focus on qualities such as kindliness,
loyalty, sympathy or an admiration for the simple things in life.
When sending them your
photos avoid pictures that make you seem unintelligent or arrogant. Don't
send them picture of you wearing sunglasses. Let them see your face and
At the first stage of
your communication don't get very personal as Ukrainian women are on the
lookout for predators. In your early emails,
Skype, Viber or WhatsApp
sessions, don't ask too many private questions. Begin with common and
general questions such as "What sorts of things do you like to do on your
free time?" Use her answer as a way to start a sincere and genuine
dialogue. For example, if she answers that she likes to go to cinema, show
her what you have in common by talking about movies you recently watched.
Me funny and humorous
as Ukrainian women are wary of men who are too serious or seem to
desperate. You can joke about your drawbacks and flaws without being
self-deprecating. Being able to talk about your failings and weaknesses
will in fact make you seem more self-assured and confident than a man who
has to brag about his merits and virtues.
Be sincere and keep
away from trying to match your interests to what you think a woman is
looking for. Instead, tell her what makes you happy, what kind of things
and activities you like and what interests you most in life. If you are
honest, your sincerity will come across. Any Ukrainian woman will
appreciate your honesty.
Quotes from the web:
- Ukrainian women
are a bit slow to commit but once they committed they are 100% committed
to their husband and children. When I left Ukraine, my Ukrainian
girlfriend was not yet my wife because she could not deal with the idea of
leaving Ukraine. But when she decided she to marry me in her eyes there
was no looking back.
- Men who seek
foreign wives find Ukrainian women more marriage minded and feminine than
- I believe that
Ukrainian women like to have foreign husbands. It might sound strange but
this is the reality. If the Ukrainian women's are looking for traditional
and conservative values and look forward to having families they might
find many Ukrainian men as well. Then what is that attracts Ukrainian
women's to foreign men. Ukrainian women usually complain that Ukrainian
men are too much laid back and are not ready to hold the responsibility of
having a wife and children. It is seen that Ukrainian women are more
attracted to European, American and even Mexican men as they give family
the main priority and many Ukrainian women find dating with foreigners
- If a man hopes to
meet his future wife on the Internet there is no advantage of him to lie
about anything, in the end the truth will come out. It's better to be
honest, open and upfront about everything to begin with. I don't lie and
wouldn't welcome it if I was talking to a woman that was just feeding me